Sunday, February 19, 2017

Our homemade snowday

My journal entry, dated Wednesday, February 8, 2017:

Today was a good, full day. When we woke up, it was already snowing, and it snowed hard ALL DAY till 5:00pm. While Jay and Rose were practicing piano and getting ready for school, I made the executive decision to stay home and have our own private snow day. When there was bad weather during my freshman year of college, our cross country team captains would sometimes decide whether or not we would go on our morning run. If our coach didn't show up early enough to make the call himself, the team captains would step in and decide for him. They jokingly called it an "executive decision." The rest of the team would be sitting on the floor at 6am, bleary-eyed and cold from the dash from bed to gym. I still remember the slightly guilty feeling of relief when the men's team captain said "I'm making the executive decision--we are not running this morning." No wet run in the cold soaking rain was GOOD. I have called weather-based decisions executive decisions ever since.

This morning I didn't tell Jay and Rose that they could stay home from school until after they had practiced piano--then I called them together and said "I have a proposal. Let's have a movie day today! First we'll clean the upstairs, vacuum, fold laundry, then we'll go outside to get some fresh air and play in the snow, and after that we'll watch movies." Jay caught on first and soon both he and Rose were celebrating our personal snow day. This turned out to be a stroke of genius. The family room was a disaster after Rose's birthday festivities yesterday, and they picked everything up willingly in no time! The also cleaned their rooms and made their beds lickety-split, happy as can be. While they worked, I worked too. I swept the kitchen and helped Amber pick up blocks. I started some laundry and then began vacuuming. When I finished that long process (we have a lot of carpet), I handed the vacuum over to Rose and Jay, and they each vacuumed their rooms. Then we bundled up and went outside into the thickly falling snow for a little adventurous wintry exercise. Thankfully the temperature outside was in the high twenties so it wasn't that bitter, searing single-digit cold that we have unenjoyed during previous snowfalls this winter.

It has been weeks since I went out in the snow to play with my kids--the snow lost its novelty and charm on me when it didn't melt after the first week, and it has been lying around in single-digit temperature stubbornly for six weeks now! Today the roads were thickly covered and unplowed as usual: perfect for a one-mom-open-sleigh ride! I laced up my grippiest trail running shoes and turned on my watch. The kids piled onto Grampa Dan's old sled and with an extra-firm tug, we were off! Amber immediately started singing her version of Jingle Bells ("oh beow, oh be-ow, oh-awayyyy!") and it made us all feel festive and free. We did one loop around our neighborhood, stopping halfway so I could give individual rides to each kid at a faster speed than I could manage while pulling all three. I ended up jogging a mile pulling kids on the sled, and my time was 17 minutes. Talk about a slow-mo-jog-in-the-snow!



During winter I am all about getting my heart rate up--anything that gets my heart pumping for 20 minutes counts as my exercise for the day. This one mile sled run fit the bill perfectly. I had to peel off a layer halfway through because it worked so well as a workout! For the last three minutes of my alloted 20 minute workout, I took the kids out to the soccer field and ran zigzag loops around them while they played. The half melted and refrozen six inch crust of hardened icy snow that was underneath the freshly fallen 3 inches of powder did hilarious things to my gait. I felt like a Tennessee walking horse wearing chains and platform shoes for the first time--then realized that a very few people would understand that reference. Every step I jogged, my foot would sink through the fresh powder, pause for half a second when it hit the crust underneath, then crunch through that crust and sink up to my ankle. It was very unsteady going, and I was stomp-clomping and waving my elbows in a very awkward way to get in that last 3 minutes of cardiovascular exercise. I kept laughing at myself as I floundered along. It was actually a very intense workout, utilizing many less-prominent stabilizing muscles. When I finished my 20 minutes, I had traveled a mile and a quarter. Later, when those little detail muscles started complaining, I decided that the workout quality of that 1.25 miles was equivalent to 5 or 6 miles on a non-snowy paved road. Normal running is going to feel so easy if this snow and ice ever melt!



We stopped to see if the cousins were home, but they weren't, so Jay cast a patronus charm in their yard: expecto patronum! His patronus is a stag, FYI.

Our back fence has a gate that opens onto the high school soccer field, but it was frozen shut by several inches of ice piled around the bottom, so the kids slid through the gap on one side while I climbed the gate, wobbling precariously, and dropped down into the deep crusty snow in the field on the other side. We played in the snow for a while after I finished my "run." I took what I thought were somewhat artistic pictures of my cute kids playing in the heavy thick snowfall. Rose and I built a small powdery snow-pile and drew a smiley face on one side with our fingers (all of the sticks and rocks we would normally use to make a face on a snow-person were frozen under six inches of ice). We called our creation a snow-ghost and he was really quite cute, in spite of our limited resources.



This bench was completely buried in snow--Jay uncovered the seat and walked on it like a balance beam.


The thickly falling snow was really only visible against a dark background. It was falling fast the entire time we were outside, but it is only visible in pictures with the fence in the background.

Amber walked around with her lower lip protruding, probably to catch snowflakes. I love that profile.




Patting powder into place is a technique Rose has perfected over the past few months.

Cute Rose with her cute snow-ghost.


Then we started getting cold so the kids squeezed back through the gap in the fence and since there are no footholds on the outside of our wooden fence, I prepped myself to stagger-clomp through the frozen deep field four houses down to the nearest break in the fences so I could double back on the street and get back to our house. Then I thought I may as well try squeezing through the narrow gap before taking the trouble to go around. I took off my jacket and leaned into the gap, testing to see if my bones would fit. The entire time I thought there was no way and I was risking getting stuck, but slowly I scraped myself through and in a minute, I was on the other side in our backyard again! It was uncomfy and I hope our gate unfreezes before I need to get into the soccer field again, but I made it.

Jay through the fence.

We mountain-climbed up our thickly iced back porch steps--the iced weeks-old snow was thick enough to make the steps into a ramp--and went inside through the kitchen door. The kitchen is our biggest non-carpeted floor, and we were all covered in snow head to toe thanks to the thick deluge dumping from the sky for our entire hour spent facing the elements. We lined our wet boots and gloves up along the wall and hung our wet coats and snowpants on kitchen chairs by the table. I whipped up some frothy hot chocolate and we feasted on peanut butter toast, crackers, hot chocolate, and carrots for an early lunch/elevensies.

After our morning of hard work and harder play, it was finally time for the movie portion of our homemade snow day (I felt crafty that our "movie day" was starting so late). The kids retreated to the basement to watch two "beep-beeps" with Amber before she went down for her nap, then they picked out the old Gene Wilder Willy Wonka's Chocolate Factory movie for their afternoon indulgence. I popped in the old video tape for them and then went upstairs to read and check on how my photographic attempts turned out. Eventually I hit a wall from all of the activity of the day and sat alternately reading and staring out the window at the white world beyond. Jeff got home early because his teacher meetings were canceled due to the snow and we all hung out doing various quiet or semi-quiet activities. Then we had leftovers for dinner.






Now is the part where I try to sum up the entire day that I just described in precise detail by filling in the blank: "It was __________." I think the best adjective for today is probably "white." It was a wonderful white snow day." Or maybe I should say "It was a wonderful White snow day." After all, puns are my one weakness.

End journal entry. I don't usually write quite that long of journal entries, but February 8th was a day I wanted to remember, so I made it juicy. It was one of those days where motherhood is amazing, kids are fun, and we were all excited to spend the day at home together. I always try to write about the dramatic days in detail (both good days and bad days) because time slips away so fast and I want to remember as much as possible. Words and pictures are my treasures--one day they will be all I have to look back on, so I want to have plenty to read and look at and remember in my old age. Also, school was officially canceled for real the next day (Feb 9th), so we had two snow days back to back--one homemade, one official. At this rate, we'll still have school on Independence Day!

Walking in winter

The snow is finally melting in earnest! This place is a mushy slushy wet mess! Layers of litter and dog poop that were frozen in between each snowfall are slowly thawing and falling to the roads and sidewalks. The streets are strewn with reddish orange clay pebbles that the city sprinkles down in lieu of shoveling, for tire traction. The roads have networks of new cracks and too many new potholes. The few avenues that were plowed a handful of times have piles of dirty snow in the gutter, laced with chipped yellow street paint that was scraped up by the snow plow. It looks like a fierce battle has been waged all over Grandview! I hope that spring comes soon to heal the scars of winter with lots of green growth. 

Once the snow, slush, and ice are all officially gone, I know I'm not going to want to relive the cold memories until about mid-July at the earliest, so I'd better get these pictures off my chest now. On February first, I woke up and looked out the window to see the sunrise through the impressive toothy icicles hanging from our roof. I was amazed. I have never seen icicles this long in real life before, and that sunlight turned them into diamond spikes guarding our house! Since The Melt started, the icicles have all fallen off--some fell straight down into our furnace fan, making a loud clinking chopping noise when the fan turned on. It was a startling sound.










After school, Jay and Rose have been walking home together across the frozen crusty white snow-drifted field behind our house. I love when they come in the door rosy-cheeked, with all that fresh cold air swirling around them, eyes alight with intuition as they start telling me about their latest walking-home adventure. Jay: "Rose walked so slow I had to yell at her lots of times!" Rose: "I saw so many beautiful things that I wanted to look at!" Me: "Yelling isn't the kind way to say hurry up. What beautiful things did you see, Rose?" They both responded at once--I often find myself holding two conversations at the same time. It gets confusing and chaotic fast.

 The approach




Jay saw me on the back porch and waved. 

Our back gate has been frozen shut for two months, so through the gap they squeeze. 



A good ole fashioned walk home from school gets their blood flowing after a long day of being cooped up in school. Amber and I celebrate when the big kids get home.

Friday, February 17, 2017

Pink Amber

Amber is talking more and more every day. This week Jeff and I agreed that she is in an adorable phase right now, with her sweet little voice and her running commentary. Of course there are plenty of two-year-old trials too, but the cuteness factor is proportional to the mayhem. She was mostly potty trained briefly before Christmas, but now refuses to use the toilet. Back to diapers it is. Everyone gets potty trained eventually...Amber just doesn't know that yet!

Sometimes when it gets quiet, I look around and find Amber sitting quietly in a chair, poring over books--either our photo books (Chatbooks) or story books from our overloaded kids' shelf in the family room. I could watch her sit and enjoy books all day.

Usually when it gets quiet, however, Amber is doing something less innocent than book-browsing. I have started calling out "Amber! Where are you?" every time I can't see or hear her. Then her little voice floats back to me "I here!" or "right here!" This checking-in helps keep her wide-ranging explorations in check a little. Amber is the master of getting into things. She is SUCH a force of nature. She climbs, she opens, she pulls, she rummages--she has the most agile little fingers for exploring forbidden drawers/closets that I have ever seen! She manages to wreak havoc and messes right under my nose daily--she'll grab a crayon and start scribbling on the wall as I'm dashing over to wrest it from her iron fist. She also likes to run away when she knows I want her to stick around. She loves her big brother and sister so much. She is such a human being these days--in spite of the two year old emotional roller coaster and the constant unloading/demolishing of our shelves, cabinets, and drawers, Amber is a sweet sweet girl and we love her.

Amber's fluffy wavy hair is still out of control, but last week I tamed it into pigtails for the first time in months. I took a bunch of pictures of it, because 1. the lighting was actually good (it's been a dark winter) and 2. she was reading and the only time she sits still is for books, beep-beeps (Magic Schoolbus cartoons), and beep-beep books.

"What are these things on my head?"

All "pinked up" and ready to go take the big kids to school.


She snuggled up with a snack and a stack of Beep-Beep books, and carefully looked through every page of all 6 or 7 books.




Those crossed ankles!


Cute nose-profile




Rody is this blue blow-up bouncy pony, and Amber loves to hop around the house on him. It is one of my favorite toys on the planet.

I drew a picture to commemorate the hopping-joy.





Eating raisins is serious business. Those EYES! I make a similar face right before doing a happy dance when someone comments on this blog--hahaha.

We are pretty happy spending the school days together.